AN Apologies to those not interested in what Anne is to learn as we learn along with her. Thanks for your comments and encouragement.
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Chapter 17
Captain Wentworth was expected a few days after Anne’s arrival. However, her new life lessons began the next day. Lady Rachel and Anne spent about an hour with the housekeeper, Mrs. Craig, discussing the things that Anne would be learning in the next two years.
Lady Rachel began, “Mrs. Craig, we have determined that, in order to be happy in the future she has chosen, Miss Anne needs a new course of study. She has become engaged to a navy captain and needs to learn how to do many of the things she learned to oversee. For example, she needs to learn to design and sew clothing, cook, garden, clean, budget, and live with minimal staff. As you know, I have some of those skills, but in general, we rely on you for that. I would like you to oversee her training so that Anne can do these things. While she will only need the sewing at sea, the others are likely to be needed in foreign postings.”
Mrs. Craig looked a little quizzical and said, “You really want her cleaning and cooking? Doing the heavy work too?” She looked at Anne’s small figure and knew she did not have the strength for some of those jobs.
Lady Rachel said, “Not the heavy things. The Captain’s pay is enough that they will be able to have at least a char for inside and a man for outside wherever they may be. However, she needs to know how these things are done, not just the results, so she can provide instruction for a new maid or man who is not skilled. And for cooking, yes, she needs to be able to cook meals for her family. If they are in foreign lands, they may not be able to find adequate help.”
Anne added, “Mrs. Craig, you needn’t worry that I will try to do the heavy work. I know I am not suited. However, I do agree I need to know how it is done.”
“You do understand some of it will not be pleasant?”
“I expect that. I do know it will be different than I am accustomed to. I have spent a great deal of time visiting parishioners in need and have seen a variety of accommodations and challenges the poor face. I do not think we will ever be quite that low, but you will not be showing me things I have not seen.”
“Very well then. We will discuss cooking with Mrs. Carlisle. Your grandmother can oversee the needlework lessons as she did with her own girls. I will manage the rest. ”
They discussed the merits of procuring a maid to learn alongside Anne and function as her lady’s maid and traveling companion after her wedding. Mrs. Craig suggested that there was a young maid, Nell, who could fill that role admirably. She had been with them only a short time and had come from a large family where she had assisted in all aspects around the house, including cooking. The three met with Nell, then held a discussion about her suitability. Finally, they met with Nell again and offered her the position.
Lady Rachel concluded the offer with, “Nell, you must understand that this means you will live far from Gloucester and your family here. While we go regularly to London, Miss Anne and the Captain will be at sea, go to foreign ports, and visit here only occasionally. Are you ready to be so far from home?”
Nell excitedly replied, “Oh yes, ma’am. This would be such an exciting opportunity. I understand about being a maid of all work, but to be a lady’s maid too, that would be wonderful. And to see all these different places, that would be wonderful.”
After that, Nell began learning to be Anne’s lady’s maid in addition to her other work at the dower house. Mrs. Craig provided additional training to Nell, with more emphasis on things that would be difficult for Anne physically, so that Nell would be a true partner and companion to Anne. In addition, she saw that Nell learned to read and write so that she might communicate with her family once she was gone with Anne. Nell had never anticipated that and was excited at the opportunity. There was always someone in town or at the parsonage who could read her letters to her family.
After the discussion with Nell, Lady Rachel, Mrs. Craig and Anne met with Mrs. Carlisle to discuss cooking lessons. After some consideration, Mrs. Carlisle suggested that Anne spend her mornings in the kitchen, at first observing, but then assisting. All agreed that this would work well. However, for the two weeks that Captain Wentworth would be visiting, she would spend only a little time in the kitchen instead of the entire morning. They would begin the next day.
That afternoon, Lady Rachel helped Anne find clothing that would be more appropriate for work in the kitchen than a standard morning dress. They obtained a servant’s dress that fit Anne moderately well. She would wear that for her cooking lessons. As they progressed with the sewing lessons, she would make others that would work as well without making her look like one of the servants.
The sewing lessons started that very afternoon. They took apart one of Anne’s older dresses to help serve as a pattern. Anne learned first how to take apart the dress. It took almost the entire afternoon to completely dismantle the old gown. She was appalled at how many pieces there were even to just a simple dress. What a complicated gown would look like was terrible to contemplate. Nell participated in these sewing classes as she would need these skills as the lady’s maid. She had some basic sewing skills but would need considerably more to provide the assistance Anne would need.
That evening, they ate with Sir Michael, Lady Matilda, and Agatha at the main house. Over the meal, Anne and Lady Rachel described Anne’s situation and what the plans for the next two years were. All thought the plan a good one and were sorry for Anne’s difficulties with her family.
Agatha said, “Before we left London, Joshua Ackerman and I came to a sort of understanding. He will not have sufficient income for at least another year, but when that comes close, he has hinted he will ask me to marry him. He comes into an inheritance when he turns twenty-five next year. He does not want to rely on his father to support a wife. He has asked to court me though, and his sister is writing me so I can hear of him. I am grateful Father and Mother are pleased with my situation. It makes things so much easier.”
Sir Michael said, “One wants ones children to be successful in marriage. Sir Walter has a different idea of what that means than we have. We consider it successful if you respect your spouse, have a comfortable life together, and enjoy one another’s company. He feels success is based on wealth, rank, and appearance. It is simply a different way of approaching life. Unfortunately for Anne, she is of our opinion and not her father’s. He is lucky that Elizabeth and he share the same values for they are much more comfortable together. It is not that either way is better, just that they are different approaches to life.”
Lady Rachel gave a small laugh and said, “Well Michael, you are certainly the diplomat. I do not think I have ever heard you defending Walter before.”
Sir Michael replied, “This past season in town was eye-opening for me. I can see that our approach to life is not the only valid one nor the only one that works. While I do not respect the choice that Sir Walter has made, it is a valid one and works for him. I guess getting a little older also means a little wiser, and I can see more clearly how it works for him and many others like him. I personally could not live that way, but that does not mean it is not a valid choice.”
Anne responded, “Thank you. It has always been a trial for me that I cannot be what Father wants. I am glad to see that it isn’t so much that one is wrong or right but that one is different from the other. I suppose that every parent wants their child to make choices that validate what the parent has done. I invalidate my father.”
Lady Matilda said, “Yes, I think you are correct. Your father cannot understand you because your values are so different from his own and he has not the capacity to understand such difference. He never recognized those in your mother although you share her values. You can continue to honor him as your father but also continue to move along your own path at the same time. At least we can help you make that move. So, now tell us about the Captain.”
Anne and Lady Rachel described the Captain. Then the discussion changed to recent events in the news including his prize capture. It was the sort of meal Anne truly enjoyed.
The next day, Anne donned her almost-fitting servant dress and appeared in the kitchen at the appointed hour. After much pleading, Agatha was also allowed to observe, although she did not plan to do any hands on learning. Mrs. Carlisle sat them at stools in a corner so that they could just watch this first day. As they went through their duties, Mrs. Carlisle explained what they were doing.
“Of course, earlier, we prepared the breakfast items and delivered them to the breakfast room. Now, it is time for washing up and then starting on the next meal. Today, we are dining in the early afternoon with a supper for tea.”
The girls watched as Susie cleaned all the glasses, then plates, then cutlery, then serving dishes, and finally pots and pans. Mrs. Carlisle explained why they were washed in that order. She explained how to scour the pans using a lye solution and occasionally some sand while Susie demonstrated. Anne had never truly grasped the physicality required of a scullery maid. Susie spent quite a long time washing. Each item was place on a drain board to drip as the next item was washed. At the end of each type of item, they were then dried and put away. She then moved on to the next. When everything was done, the work surface was wiped down. The towels were then taken outside and hung to dry.
Meanwhile, Mrs. Carlisle was working on loaves of bread. As Susie cleaned, Mrs. Carlisle was kneading the loaves which had already had one rising. She kneaded each loaf and returned it to its pan for a second rising. The loaf for the family was in a loaf pan. Those for the servants were formed into a loaf rounded shape and placed on flat pans. These pans were then placed on a shelf near the oven which would keep them warm for the rising. She explained what she was doing and why as she did it for the girls’ edification.
After the loaves were rising and the kitchen clean, they began the remaining preparations for dinner. Mrs. Carlisle placed a roast into a roast pan and seasoned it while Susie cut up potatoes, carrots, onions, and turnips. These Mrs. Carlisle placed around the roast. She added a little fat in the midst of the vegetables as well as some seasoning, then covered the pan and placed it into the oven.
With the main dish in the oven roasting, it was now time to place the bread loaves into the bread oven for baking. Then attention turned to the sweet. Susie continued to wash up so that items could be reused as the dinner preparation continued.
Anne was amazed at all the work it took to put a simple dinner on the table. Mrs. Carlisle continued to provide explanation as they worked so that they would understand what was going on. When the loaves were removed from the oven, it was time to dress for dinner and return to the drawing room with their grandmother.
When they joined Lady Rachel, Anne said, “Grandmother, I truly do see the wisdom in your suggestion. If I had to cook for my family, we would starve to death. I had no idea so much was involved in creating a simple dinner such as we are having today. I could not even imagine preparing a fancy meal.”
Lady Rachel smiled. “I would have been surprised if you did. My mother was old-fashioned and trained all of us in the very basics. However, even in my youth, that was unusual in the upper classes. Now it is almost unheard of. That means that should we choose to marry outside our class, we are almost completely unprepared. One of the reasons we have so many servants is that caring for a household is a very difficult task. A great deal is required to do so competently. That is why we are so careful in our housekeepers. These women are the ones who ensure that we are comfortable. In foreign parts, you will be limited in the number of servants you can employ. If you were to marry now, you would have to wait until you are twenty one to receive the dowry. That means, depending on the sort of home you rent, you could employ only a few servants. I do not think you will ever be required to do the heavy scrubbing to keep the house clean. Also, you will likely never be required to do any heavy work in the garden. However, you need to know about it to oversee it. And you might need to do your own cooking and likely your own sewing as well. Mrs. Craig and I will see that you have all these skills. Nell will be learning others to assist you, particularly the heavier work.”
Anne replied, “Well, I know how to oversee the housekeeper, so now I guess I learn all the other details. I am sure it will be interesting.”
Agatha said, “You know, I do not think my mother knows how to do all this.”
Lady Rachel replied, “I would be surprised if she did. As I said, it is not generally taught to those of our station. However, you will both benefit from what Anne learns, that is if you still want to participate, Agatha.”
“You know, I think I do. And not just observe. When Anne starts learning to do things in the kitchen, I would like to also. While I will likely not need it, as she might, it will be a good set of skills to acquire in any case.”
Shortly after that, dinner was served. As they sat down to the table, Anne looked at the food with new appreciation for what it took to bring to the table. That added a little savor to her enjoyment of the meal.
During the afternoon, they returned to the need for serviceable dresses. Lady Rachel, the girls, and Nell rode into the village. They spent time selecting suitable fabrics for the new dresses. They selected both a medium brown and a medium gray in a fabric slightly finer than that used in the dresses of the South Park servants. Both girls would make these two dresses, although they also agreed that they would trim them slightly differently. This was also a lesson, as they made their selections after they were instructed in how well each fabric would wear, how easily it would press, how easy it was to clean and to maintain. Other considerations were the cost per wearing, as opposed to the overall cost of the dress. One could get many more wearings out of a slightly better fabric, making the cost per wearing much lower than the less expensive material. All of these were things Anne had never before considered. She had simply chosen a design, and a material that she liked. Her maid had managed the maintenance and repair. Now Nell would also be learning those alongside Anne.
When they were once again in the carriage with their purchases, Anne said to her grandmother, “You know, I think we should do this same thing with Mary when she visits next spring. These are all things we should all know, and I know she is like me and knows nothing of this. While I might someday be in a position to make completely frivolous choices again, somehow, I do not think I will. I think all of these things will inform my future choices.”
“I did some of this with your mother and Aunt Susan before they came out when they left school. I suspect your mother would have done the same had she not been taken before her time. It is unfortunate that Elizabeth is not interested. I will follow your suggestion and begin teaching Mary as well when she visits rather than waiting until she leaves school permanently.”
Agatha said, “I certainly appreciate learning this. While I shouldn’t need to make my own dresses after we’ve made these two, particularly not from these stout materials, understanding this will make it easier to select cloth for the servants and for future children. Also, we can better appreciate our finery.”
They then proceeded to pay calls on a few of the neighbors. For the rest of the week, each day, Anne and Agatha spent the morning in the kitchen. Each afternoon, they spent some time working on sewing the work dresses. They then either paid or received calls. By the end of the week, Anne had completed one new dress and Agatha was almost finished with hers. It had taken many hours of fine sewing, and they were justly proud of their accomplishments. By this point, they was now chopping vegetables and kneading dough in the kitchen. Both were very proud of the progress they were making.
Chapter 18
As expected, Captain Wentworth arrived at South Park after Anne had been in residence a week. He was warmly greeted by Sir Michael and Lady Matilda. As introductions were made, Sir Michael sent a footman down to the dower house to inform the ladies of Frederick’s arrival. When he returned to the drawing room, Sir Michael introduced Agatha.
”Captain, I am so glad to meet make your acquaintance. Anne has told us so much about you. And I love the lessons she is having. Mother is letting me spend some time with her learning as well, although I am not doing as much actual cooking as Anne will be doing.”
Sir Michael laughed and said, “Yes, we are very glad to meet you. However, you will not be here on your own. We have a group joining us tomorrow for a week’s shooting. I hope you will feel free to join us while Anne is busy with her lessons. I assure you they are very nice people. They include the family of the young man who unofficially hopes to marry Agatha next year, so you would be getting to know a future relative.”
“I would enjoy that, sir. My brother, who Anne may have indicated is a curate in Monkford, is not one who is given to shooting parties. I enjoy sport and would like to participate. I am sure I will have an opportunity to spend time with Miss Anne before I leave to return to sea. And I would like to meet a future cousin.”
At this point, the ladies arrived in Lady Rachel’s carriage and were shown into the drawing room. Anne and Frederick enjoyed a few quiet words together before politeness had them rejoin the general conversation in the room. “Oh, Frederick, it is so good to be able to spend some time with you where people will not be so critical. I am happy you are finally here.”
“Yes, it will be nice. Come now, it has not been that long since we parted. How will you feel when I am away at sea for months?”
“I will be deliriously happy to see you again.” Anne blushed as she made such an audacious response.
Frederick laughed. “As will I. At least we will have some days together before I must leave again.”
As Anne turned to look over at the assembled family, she smiled winningly and replied, “I think you will find my family here quite enjoyable to visit with.”
Lady Matilda had watched the encounter and smiled herself as she brought Anne into the general conversation asking about Anne’s progress in the kitchen during this past week.
“I have learned to peel and chop vegetables. For a stew or soup, it is tedious but relatively simple. For a fancier dish, dicing them all the same size is surprisingly difficult. I have not yet succeeded in being very consistent, but Mrs. Carlisle is quite patient with me. Agatha finds my feeble efforts very amusing.”
Agatha responded, “I am certainly grateful that I do not need to work so hard for my meals. However, the skills required are very impressive. I am sure this will make our winter far more interesting than last.”
Frederick moved over to speak to Sir Michael as the ladies discussed domestic topics. “I understand the family has some young men in the army.”
“My nephew and younger son are both in the fray.”
“I gather from Miss Anne that this means you follow the news closely.”
“We all do. Mother as well. It leads to interesting discussions. A simpleton would have trouble in our family circle, so I think you will enjoy yourself with us. You are no simpleton.”
“Thank you sir. That is uncommonly generous of you.”
Sir Michael asked Frederick to share the story of the prize ship capture. They all listened in fascination, remembering their discussions about the Santo Domingo action when it occurred. They moved from the prize to again discussing Duckworth’s choice to follow the French across the Atlantic. It was quite a lively discussion. Finally, they sat down to a pleasant meal discussing current items from the news. Everyone wondered what it would mean that Prussia had joined Britain and Russia in the fight against Napoleon.
“The Prussians do not have a navy to speak of, so there should be little impact to the war on the seas,” said Frederick.
Sir Michael replied, “But the Prussian military is top-notch. I should think they will have a major impact in the ground war.”
Lady Rachel added, “Well, I do not know if the Prussians are as good as you say. Napoleon is still moving forward at a frightening speed. I think it will take everything we have to stop him.”
Lady Matilda said, “I think you are correct, Mother. I know the Kaiser prides himself on his armies, but they have not been tested in some time. And Napoleon has his working quite well.”
The merits of the various armies were discussed throughout the meal. As the ladies withdrew, Frederick said to the men, “I cannot tell you how refreshing it is to be in company with a diverse group of people who are actually interested in what is going on. Too many are complacent thinking that nothing will impact us here in England. Should Napoleon be successful, we will be isolated here in our little island with only the navy to keep things moving. I hate to think what that would look like.”
Sir Michael replied, “I cannot think it would be very comfortable.”
The evening’s entertainment consisted of Anne and Agatha taking turns to play piano as the others visited or listened, depending on their temperaments. Finally, Anne and Lady Rachel entered the carriage and returned to the dower house while the others mounted the stairs to their rooms.
The shooting party arrived the next day. Besides the Ackermans, there were three other older couples. The only young people visiting were Millicent and Joshua Ackerman. Millicent decided to join Agatha and Anne in the dower kitchen in the mornings while the men were shooting. These activities would have been suspended if the visitors were not such close friends. These could all sympathize with Anne’s situation and applauded Lady Rachel’s solution.
Lady Rachel spent that time up at the main house with Lady Matilda and the rest of the wives. There was always a great deal to talk about, particularly of mutual friends and the various marriages and births occurring in their set. A little embroidery accompanied the discussions along with a great deal of tea and biscuits.
Everyone joined for a late luncheon in the main house after the morning shooting was completed. Much of the discussion was about conditions in the field. For some, the afternoon was given over to riding or strolling about the grounds. Others spent some time resting after the labors of the morning. Anne and Frederick were able to spend time in the afternoons together in conversation, usually about what he would be doing when he returned to sea.
“I will have command of a smaller ship, a sloop. Commanders do not captain a ship of the line. While I have orders to report, I do not yet know what ship it will be nor where we will be heading. I receive that information when I do report. Then, we fit out the ship and obtain a crew. Then, off we go.”
“I now have a lady’s maid, Nell, who will be able to be a companion when I join you onboard ship. That’s all right, isn’t it?”
“It is common although not a requirement. She will be company to you when I cannot be and provide assistance that a husband may not be good at.”
Anne smiled and replied, “It seems like such a long time to wait. I wish Father were not so… However, at least there is something practical I can do while we wait.”
“I would love to marry you now and take you with me when I leave. However, since he would not give his permission, we must make the best of it. Now, I noticed last night when cards were proposed, that you chose not to play. Do you not enjoy cards? They are often played on board when one is not on duty.”
Anne blushed to think that he had noticed such a thing. “I am no card-player. I can play but choose not to if given an option. At card parties at Kellynch, for example, I usually provide background music at the piano. I get no enjoyment from cards.”
“What does give you enjoyment?”
“Other than your company? Well, music, reading, fine conversation.”
“Ah. You will keep me hopping as I strive to ensure I can measure up.” After this, Anne asked about life onboard ship and listened as Frederick explained how he generally spent his time. He told a variety of stories about mishaps at sea and the beauty he experienced almost daily.
Dinner was later in the day and generally consisted of the fruits of the hunt. The shooting party was a huge success. Frederick enjoyed both the shooting and the new acquaintances, but he particularly enjoyed his growing ease and knowledge of Anne. The more they learned of one another, the more they recognized how well suited they were for one another.
Millicent, Anne, and Agatha entertained everyone in the evenings by taking turns at the piano. Eventually, the card players would gather together and the games ensue. Those not interested would visit or read as desire dictated.
Joshua Ackerman and Agatha were able to spend these evenings becoming even better acquainted. By the end of the week, Joshua Ackerman had determined that he did not want to wait to formalize his agreement with Agatha, although they would still wait until he inherited to marry later in the spring. Thus, he spent time with Sir Michael asking his blessing and permission, discussing how he envisioned his future with Agatha. Sir Michael gave permission, so Joshua took Agatha aside as they all visited in the drawing room and asked her for her hand. She happily gave her assent. He then shared the happy news with everyone present.
All offered their congratulations. As Frederick offered his, he said, “I expect I will be at sea when you two marry. I hope you have all happiness and expect to get to know you in the future after Miss Anne and I have married. I look forward to many happy years as a family.”
Agatha smiled and said, “Thank you. You have already made Anne so happy that I know we will enjoy years together as a happy family. I look forward to you joining us formally in two years or so after Anne’s birthday.”
The next evening, they had a celebratory dinner. The day following the celebration, the shooting party left, but Joshua Ackerman had permission to write to Agatha until they saw each other in town again in the late winter. Two days later, Captain Wentworth said his farewells and departed for his next assignment on the Asp. He too would be corresponding with Anne, but also with Sir Michael and Lady Rachel. He had greatly enjoyed this portion of Anne’s family, such a contrast to her father and sister. At Frederick’s request, Anne also began corresponding with Sophie Croft, Frederick’s sister.
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Chapter 17
Captain Wentworth was expected a few days after Anne’s arrival. However, her new life lessons began the next day. Lady Rachel and Anne spent about an hour with the housekeeper, Mrs. Craig, discussing the things that Anne would be learning in the next two years.
Lady Rachel began, “Mrs. Craig, we have determined that, in order to be happy in the future she has chosen, Miss Anne needs a new course of study. She has become engaged to a navy captain and needs to learn how to do many of the things she learned to oversee. For example, she needs to learn to design and sew clothing, cook, garden, clean, budget, and live with minimal staff. As you know, I have some of those skills, but in general, we rely on you for that. I would like you to oversee her training so that Anne can do these things. While she will only need the sewing at sea, the others are likely to be needed in foreign postings.”
Mrs. Craig looked a little quizzical and said, “You really want her cleaning and cooking? Doing the heavy work too?” She looked at Anne’s small figure and knew she did not have the strength for some of those jobs.
Lady Rachel said, “Not the heavy things. The Captain’s pay is enough that they will be able to have at least a char for inside and a man for outside wherever they may be. However, she needs to know how these things are done, not just the results, so she can provide instruction for a new maid or man who is not skilled. And for cooking, yes, she needs to be able to cook meals for her family. If they are in foreign lands, they may not be able to find adequate help.”
Anne added, “Mrs. Craig, you needn’t worry that I will try to do the heavy work. I know I am not suited. However, I do agree I need to know how it is done.”
“You do understand some of it will not be pleasant?”
“I expect that. I do know it will be different than I am accustomed to. I have spent a great deal of time visiting parishioners in need and have seen a variety of accommodations and challenges the poor face. I do not think we will ever be quite that low, but you will not be showing me things I have not seen.”
“Very well then. We will discuss cooking with Mrs. Carlisle. Your grandmother can oversee the needlework lessons as she did with her own girls. I will manage the rest. ”
They discussed the merits of procuring a maid to learn alongside Anne and function as her lady’s maid and traveling companion after her wedding. Mrs. Craig suggested that there was a young maid, Nell, who could fill that role admirably. She had been with them only a short time and had come from a large family where she had assisted in all aspects around the house, including cooking. The three met with Nell, then held a discussion about her suitability. Finally, they met with Nell again and offered her the position.
Lady Rachel concluded the offer with, “Nell, you must understand that this means you will live far from Gloucester and your family here. While we go regularly to London, Miss Anne and the Captain will be at sea, go to foreign ports, and visit here only occasionally. Are you ready to be so far from home?”
Nell excitedly replied, “Oh yes, ma’am. This would be such an exciting opportunity. I understand about being a maid of all work, but to be a lady’s maid too, that would be wonderful. And to see all these different places, that would be wonderful.”
After that, Nell began learning to be Anne’s lady’s maid in addition to her other work at the dower house. Mrs. Craig provided additional training to Nell, with more emphasis on things that would be difficult for Anne physically, so that Nell would be a true partner and companion to Anne. In addition, she saw that Nell learned to read and write so that she might communicate with her family once she was gone with Anne. Nell had never anticipated that and was excited at the opportunity. There was always someone in town or at the parsonage who could read her letters to her family.
After the discussion with Nell, Lady Rachel, Mrs. Craig and Anne met with Mrs. Carlisle to discuss cooking lessons. After some consideration, Mrs. Carlisle suggested that Anne spend her mornings in the kitchen, at first observing, but then assisting. All agreed that this would work well. However, for the two weeks that Captain Wentworth would be visiting, she would spend only a little time in the kitchen instead of the entire morning. They would begin the next day.
That afternoon, Lady Rachel helped Anne find clothing that would be more appropriate for work in the kitchen than a standard morning dress. They obtained a servant’s dress that fit Anne moderately well. She would wear that for her cooking lessons. As they progressed with the sewing lessons, she would make others that would work as well without making her look like one of the servants.
The sewing lessons started that very afternoon. They took apart one of Anne’s older dresses to help serve as a pattern. Anne learned first how to take apart the dress. It took almost the entire afternoon to completely dismantle the old gown. She was appalled at how many pieces there were even to just a simple dress. What a complicated gown would look like was terrible to contemplate. Nell participated in these sewing classes as she would need these skills as the lady’s maid. She had some basic sewing skills but would need considerably more to provide the assistance Anne would need.
That evening, they ate with Sir Michael, Lady Matilda, and Agatha at the main house. Over the meal, Anne and Lady Rachel described Anne’s situation and what the plans for the next two years were. All thought the plan a good one and were sorry for Anne’s difficulties with her family.
Agatha said, “Before we left London, Joshua Ackerman and I came to a sort of understanding. He will not have sufficient income for at least another year, but when that comes close, he has hinted he will ask me to marry him. He comes into an inheritance when he turns twenty-five next year. He does not want to rely on his father to support a wife. He has asked to court me though, and his sister is writing me so I can hear of him. I am grateful Father and Mother are pleased with my situation. It makes things so much easier.”
Sir Michael said, “One wants ones children to be successful in marriage. Sir Walter has a different idea of what that means than we have. We consider it successful if you respect your spouse, have a comfortable life together, and enjoy one another’s company. He feels success is based on wealth, rank, and appearance. It is simply a different way of approaching life. Unfortunately for Anne, she is of our opinion and not her father’s. He is lucky that Elizabeth and he share the same values for they are much more comfortable together. It is not that either way is better, just that they are different approaches to life.”
Lady Rachel gave a small laugh and said, “Well Michael, you are certainly the diplomat. I do not think I have ever heard you defending Walter before.”
Sir Michael replied, “This past season in town was eye-opening for me. I can see that our approach to life is not the only valid one nor the only one that works. While I do not respect the choice that Sir Walter has made, it is a valid one and works for him. I guess getting a little older also means a little wiser, and I can see more clearly how it works for him and many others like him. I personally could not live that way, but that does not mean it is not a valid choice.”
Anne responded, “Thank you. It has always been a trial for me that I cannot be what Father wants. I am glad to see that it isn’t so much that one is wrong or right but that one is different from the other. I suppose that every parent wants their child to make choices that validate what the parent has done. I invalidate my father.”
Lady Matilda said, “Yes, I think you are correct. Your father cannot understand you because your values are so different from his own and he has not the capacity to understand such difference. He never recognized those in your mother although you share her values. You can continue to honor him as your father but also continue to move along your own path at the same time. At least we can help you make that move. So, now tell us about the Captain.”
Anne and Lady Rachel described the Captain. Then the discussion changed to recent events in the news including his prize capture. It was the sort of meal Anne truly enjoyed.
The next day, Anne donned her almost-fitting servant dress and appeared in the kitchen at the appointed hour. After much pleading, Agatha was also allowed to observe, although she did not plan to do any hands on learning. Mrs. Carlisle sat them at stools in a corner so that they could just watch this first day. As they went through their duties, Mrs. Carlisle explained what they were doing.
“Of course, earlier, we prepared the breakfast items and delivered them to the breakfast room. Now, it is time for washing up and then starting on the next meal. Today, we are dining in the early afternoon with a supper for tea.”
The girls watched as Susie cleaned all the glasses, then plates, then cutlery, then serving dishes, and finally pots and pans. Mrs. Carlisle explained why they were washed in that order. She explained how to scour the pans using a lye solution and occasionally some sand while Susie demonstrated. Anne had never truly grasped the physicality required of a scullery maid. Susie spent quite a long time washing. Each item was place on a drain board to drip as the next item was washed. At the end of each type of item, they were then dried and put away. She then moved on to the next. When everything was done, the work surface was wiped down. The towels were then taken outside and hung to dry.
Meanwhile, Mrs. Carlisle was working on loaves of bread. As Susie cleaned, Mrs. Carlisle was kneading the loaves which had already had one rising. She kneaded each loaf and returned it to its pan for a second rising. The loaf for the family was in a loaf pan. Those for the servants were formed into a loaf rounded shape and placed on flat pans. These pans were then placed on a shelf near the oven which would keep them warm for the rising. She explained what she was doing and why as she did it for the girls’ edification.
After the loaves were rising and the kitchen clean, they began the remaining preparations for dinner. Mrs. Carlisle placed a roast into a roast pan and seasoned it while Susie cut up potatoes, carrots, onions, and turnips. These Mrs. Carlisle placed around the roast. She added a little fat in the midst of the vegetables as well as some seasoning, then covered the pan and placed it into the oven.
With the main dish in the oven roasting, it was now time to place the bread loaves into the bread oven for baking. Then attention turned to the sweet. Susie continued to wash up so that items could be reused as the dinner preparation continued.
Anne was amazed at all the work it took to put a simple dinner on the table. Mrs. Carlisle continued to provide explanation as they worked so that they would understand what was going on. When the loaves were removed from the oven, it was time to dress for dinner and return to the drawing room with their grandmother.
When they joined Lady Rachel, Anne said, “Grandmother, I truly do see the wisdom in your suggestion. If I had to cook for my family, we would starve to death. I had no idea so much was involved in creating a simple dinner such as we are having today. I could not even imagine preparing a fancy meal.”
Lady Rachel smiled. “I would have been surprised if you did. My mother was old-fashioned and trained all of us in the very basics. However, even in my youth, that was unusual in the upper classes. Now it is almost unheard of. That means that should we choose to marry outside our class, we are almost completely unprepared. One of the reasons we have so many servants is that caring for a household is a very difficult task. A great deal is required to do so competently. That is why we are so careful in our housekeepers. These women are the ones who ensure that we are comfortable. In foreign parts, you will be limited in the number of servants you can employ. If you were to marry now, you would have to wait until you are twenty one to receive the dowry. That means, depending on the sort of home you rent, you could employ only a few servants. I do not think you will ever be required to do the heavy scrubbing to keep the house clean. Also, you will likely never be required to do any heavy work in the garden. However, you need to know about it to oversee it. And you might need to do your own cooking and likely your own sewing as well. Mrs. Craig and I will see that you have all these skills. Nell will be learning others to assist you, particularly the heavier work.”
Anne replied, “Well, I know how to oversee the housekeeper, so now I guess I learn all the other details. I am sure it will be interesting.”
Agatha said, “You know, I do not think my mother knows how to do all this.”
Lady Rachel replied, “I would be surprised if she did. As I said, it is not generally taught to those of our station. However, you will both benefit from what Anne learns, that is if you still want to participate, Agatha.”
“You know, I think I do. And not just observe. When Anne starts learning to do things in the kitchen, I would like to also. While I will likely not need it, as she might, it will be a good set of skills to acquire in any case.”
Shortly after that, dinner was served. As they sat down to the table, Anne looked at the food with new appreciation for what it took to bring to the table. That added a little savor to her enjoyment of the meal.
During the afternoon, they returned to the need for serviceable dresses. Lady Rachel, the girls, and Nell rode into the village. They spent time selecting suitable fabrics for the new dresses. They selected both a medium brown and a medium gray in a fabric slightly finer than that used in the dresses of the South Park servants. Both girls would make these two dresses, although they also agreed that they would trim them slightly differently. This was also a lesson, as they made their selections after they were instructed in how well each fabric would wear, how easily it would press, how easy it was to clean and to maintain. Other considerations were the cost per wearing, as opposed to the overall cost of the dress. One could get many more wearings out of a slightly better fabric, making the cost per wearing much lower than the less expensive material. All of these were things Anne had never before considered. She had simply chosen a design, and a material that she liked. Her maid had managed the maintenance and repair. Now Nell would also be learning those alongside Anne.
When they were once again in the carriage with their purchases, Anne said to her grandmother, “You know, I think we should do this same thing with Mary when she visits next spring. These are all things we should all know, and I know she is like me and knows nothing of this. While I might someday be in a position to make completely frivolous choices again, somehow, I do not think I will. I think all of these things will inform my future choices.”
“I did some of this with your mother and Aunt Susan before they came out when they left school. I suspect your mother would have done the same had she not been taken before her time. It is unfortunate that Elizabeth is not interested. I will follow your suggestion and begin teaching Mary as well when she visits rather than waiting until she leaves school permanently.”
Agatha said, “I certainly appreciate learning this. While I shouldn’t need to make my own dresses after we’ve made these two, particularly not from these stout materials, understanding this will make it easier to select cloth for the servants and for future children. Also, we can better appreciate our finery.”
They then proceeded to pay calls on a few of the neighbors. For the rest of the week, each day, Anne and Agatha spent the morning in the kitchen. Each afternoon, they spent some time working on sewing the work dresses. They then either paid or received calls. By the end of the week, Anne had completed one new dress and Agatha was almost finished with hers. It had taken many hours of fine sewing, and they were justly proud of their accomplishments. By this point, they was now chopping vegetables and kneading dough in the kitchen. Both were very proud of the progress they were making.
Chapter 18
As expected, Captain Wentworth arrived at South Park after Anne had been in residence a week. He was warmly greeted by Sir Michael and Lady Matilda. As introductions were made, Sir Michael sent a footman down to the dower house to inform the ladies of Frederick’s arrival. When he returned to the drawing room, Sir Michael introduced Agatha.
”Captain, I am so glad to meet make your acquaintance. Anne has told us so much about you. And I love the lessons she is having. Mother is letting me spend some time with her learning as well, although I am not doing as much actual cooking as Anne will be doing.”
Sir Michael laughed and said, “Yes, we are very glad to meet you. However, you will not be here on your own. We have a group joining us tomorrow for a week’s shooting. I hope you will feel free to join us while Anne is busy with her lessons. I assure you they are very nice people. They include the family of the young man who unofficially hopes to marry Agatha next year, so you would be getting to know a future relative.”
“I would enjoy that, sir. My brother, who Anne may have indicated is a curate in Monkford, is not one who is given to shooting parties. I enjoy sport and would like to participate. I am sure I will have an opportunity to spend time with Miss Anne before I leave to return to sea. And I would like to meet a future cousin.”
At this point, the ladies arrived in Lady Rachel’s carriage and were shown into the drawing room. Anne and Frederick enjoyed a few quiet words together before politeness had them rejoin the general conversation in the room. “Oh, Frederick, it is so good to be able to spend some time with you where people will not be so critical. I am happy you are finally here.”
“Yes, it will be nice. Come now, it has not been that long since we parted. How will you feel when I am away at sea for months?”
“I will be deliriously happy to see you again.” Anne blushed as she made such an audacious response.
Frederick laughed. “As will I. At least we will have some days together before I must leave again.”
As Anne turned to look over at the assembled family, she smiled winningly and replied, “I think you will find my family here quite enjoyable to visit with.”
Lady Matilda had watched the encounter and smiled herself as she brought Anne into the general conversation asking about Anne’s progress in the kitchen during this past week.
“I have learned to peel and chop vegetables. For a stew or soup, it is tedious but relatively simple. For a fancier dish, dicing them all the same size is surprisingly difficult. I have not yet succeeded in being very consistent, but Mrs. Carlisle is quite patient with me. Agatha finds my feeble efforts very amusing.”
Agatha responded, “I am certainly grateful that I do not need to work so hard for my meals. However, the skills required are very impressive. I am sure this will make our winter far more interesting than last.”
Frederick moved over to speak to Sir Michael as the ladies discussed domestic topics. “I understand the family has some young men in the army.”
“My nephew and younger son are both in the fray.”
“I gather from Miss Anne that this means you follow the news closely.”
“We all do. Mother as well. It leads to interesting discussions. A simpleton would have trouble in our family circle, so I think you will enjoy yourself with us. You are no simpleton.”
“Thank you sir. That is uncommonly generous of you.”
Sir Michael asked Frederick to share the story of the prize ship capture. They all listened in fascination, remembering their discussions about the Santo Domingo action when it occurred. They moved from the prize to again discussing Duckworth’s choice to follow the French across the Atlantic. It was quite a lively discussion. Finally, they sat down to a pleasant meal discussing current items from the news. Everyone wondered what it would mean that Prussia had joined Britain and Russia in the fight against Napoleon.
“The Prussians do not have a navy to speak of, so there should be little impact to the war on the seas,” said Frederick.
Sir Michael replied, “But the Prussian military is top-notch. I should think they will have a major impact in the ground war.”
Lady Rachel added, “Well, I do not know if the Prussians are as good as you say. Napoleon is still moving forward at a frightening speed. I think it will take everything we have to stop him.”
Lady Matilda said, “I think you are correct, Mother. I know the Kaiser prides himself on his armies, but they have not been tested in some time. And Napoleon has his working quite well.”
The merits of the various armies were discussed throughout the meal. As the ladies withdrew, Frederick said to the men, “I cannot tell you how refreshing it is to be in company with a diverse group of people who are actually interested in what is going on. Too many are complacent thinking that nothing will impact us here in England. Should Napoleon be successful, we will be isolated here in our little island with only the navy to keep things moving. I hate to think what that would look like.”
Sir Michael replied, “I cannot think it would be very comfortable.”
The evening’s entertainment consisted of Anne and Agatha taking turns to play piano as the others visited or listened, depending on their temperaments. Finally, Anne and Lady Rachel entered the carriage and returned to the dower house while the others mounted the stairs to their rooms.
The shooting party arrived the next day. Besides the Ackermans, there were three other older couples. The only young people visiting were Millicent and Joshua Ackerman. Millicent decided to join Agatha and Anne in the dower kitchen in the mornings while the men were shooting. These activities would have been suspended if the visitors were not such close friends. These could all sympathize with Anne’s situation and applauded Lady Rachel’s solution.
Lady Rachel spent that time up at the main house with Lady Matilda and the rest of the wives. There was always a great deal to talk about, particularly of mutual friends and the various marriages and births occurring in their set. A little embroidery accompanied the discussions along with a great deal of tea and biscuits.
Everyone joined for a late luncheon in the main house after the morning shooting was completed. Much of the discussion was about conditions in the field. For some, the afternoon was given over to riding or strolling about the grounds. Others spent some time resting after the labors of the morning. Anne and Frederick were able to spend time in the afternoons together in conversation, usually about what he would be doing when he returned to sea.
“I will have command of a smaller ship, a sloop. Commanders do not captain a ship of the line. While I have orders to report, I do not yet know what ship it will be nor where we will be heading. I receive that information when I do report. Then, we fit out the ship and obtain a crew. Then, off we go.”
“I now have a lady’s maid, Nell, who will be able to be a companion when I join you onboard ship. That’s all right, isn’t it?”
“It is common although not a requirement. She will be company to you when I cannot be and provide assistance that a husband may not be good at.”
Anne smiled and replied, “It seems like such a long time to wait. I wish Father were not so… However, at least there is something practical I can do while we wait.”
“I would love to marry you now and take you with me when I leave. However, since he would not give his permission, we must make the best of it. Now, I noticed last night when cards were proposed, that you chose not to play. Do you not enjoy cards? They are often played on board when one is not on duty.”
Anne blushed to think that he had noticed such a thing. “I am no card-player. I can play but choose not to if given an option. At card parties at Kellynch, for example, I usually provide background music at the piano. I get no enjoyment from cards.”
“What does give you enjoyment?”
“Other than your company? Well, music, reading, fine conversation.”
“Ah. You will keep me hopping as I strive to ensure I can measure up.” After this, Anne asked about life onboard ship and listened as Frederick explained how he generally spent his time. He told a variety of stories about mishaps at sea and the beauty he experienced almost daily.
Dinner was later in the day and generally consisted of the fruits of the hunt. The shooting party was a huge success. Frederick enjoyed both the shooting and the new acquaintances, but he particularly enjoyed his growing ease and knowledge of Anne. The more they learned of one another, the more they recognized how well suited they were for one another.
Millicent, Anne, and Agatha entertained everyone in the evenings by taking turns at the piano. Eventually, the card players would gather together and the games ensue. Those not interested would visit or read as desire dictated.
Joshua Ackerman and Agatha were able to spend these evenings becoming even better acquainted. By the end of the week, Joshua Ackerman had determined that he did not want to wait to formalize his agreement with Agatha, although they would still wait until he inherited to marry later in the spring. Thus, he spent time with Sir Michael asking his blessing and permission, discussing how he envisioned his future with Agatha. Sir Michael gave permission, so Joshua took Agatha aside as they all visited in the drawing room and asked her for her hand. She happily gave her assent. He then shared the happy news with everyone present.
All offered their congratulations. As Frederick offered his, he said, “I expect I will be at sea when you two marry. I hope you have all happiness and expect to get to know you in the future after Miss Anne and I have married. I look forward to many happy years as a family.”
Agatha smiled and said, “Thank you. You have already made Anne so happy that I know we will enjoy years together as a happy family. I look forward to you joining us formally in two years or so after Anne’s birthday.”
The next evening, they had a celebratory dinner. The day following the celebration, the shooting party left, but Joshua Ackerman had permission to write to Agatha until they saw each other in town again in the late winter. Two days later, Captain Wentworth said his farewells and departed for his next assignment on the Asp. He too would be corresponding with Anne, but also with Sir Michael and Lady Rachel. He had greatly enjoyed this portion of Anne’s family, such a contrast to her father and sister. At Frederick’s request, Anne also began corresponding with Sophie Croft, Frederick’s sister.